Prefers night hours visit
Well it’s common for a man to visit you at night and spend time with you especially after having fun with the boys. Although if it’s something that he does every time, you got your answer. Why should a man who loves you come to see you only at night? And to make matters worse he comes while he is drunk. A perfect indicator that you absolutely being used.
Sweet words with little or no actions
Certainly you should be careful about this man. He knows the words your ears want to hear and make you feel loved. But as the saying ‘actions speak louder than words’ you got to go with that, words only are not enough to show some real love.
Frequently cancels plans giving cheap excuses
You get excited to spend time with this man and you always in a jovial mood while hanging out. But it all happens that when you the one making plans to spend time with him, he’s always the one who spoils everything as he cancels the plans and gives cheap excuses. Cancelling plans continuously is a clear sign that you been used lady.
Avoids spending his cash on you
Going broke happens and it is always good to split things 50/50 to help each other whenever one is broke. Well for this man, you are the ‘ATM machine’, you pay for every little thing. Lady, he cannot even afford to traet you at a local café with a cup of coffee. It is normal for people to be broke but for this man, he is all the time broke, apparently with no good reason for him to lack money. You should know that a man who is not ready to spend on you, he is definitely using you.
Only communicates when he wants you
This man will be in touch with you when he needs you. If he needs some cash to pay up for something, needs to go for lunch, needs someone to ride him to work, he’s making an effort to keep you on the number one on his dial list. Although when he is all sorted and doesn’t need anything, hardly will you hear from him. He only shows up when he’s in need, keep off, someone is taking advantage of you.
Not at any given time does he do anything exceptional for you.
We all know that in a relationship, one has to be committed, let it be all about take and give. On his birthday, you there to give him gifts as it is a special day for him and you take your time to make him feel special. However, this guy hardly gives you a gift. If he cannot treat you, clearly that shows he is the ‘don’t care’ type.
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